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Hi Bull,
It’s okay, if not
natural; to dislike other guys talking to your girl. I just hope you
didn’t put on a long face and pout whenever guys were putting the moves on
her. Because what happens if you toss a hissy fit is that you show the girl
that in the future if she ever wants to control you or get to you, all she has
to do is talk to another guy. Like my cousin General Love says, “What
you’re actually doing when you lose control of yourself is giving her
information and ammo for future battles – that she’s going to
win!”
So you’re going about this all wrong, Bull. You have
to realize that all single guys are after Romy and that’s fine. Like my
cousin Sal “The Fish” Love says, “That’s just a fact of
life when you have someone who looks like Kate Beckinsale hanging off your
arm.” But don’t worry about all those other guys. To you Psych
majors, it’s her you have to worry about. How does she react to all this
attention? Does she tell these other dudes that she has a boyfriend and try to
keep them at arm’s length? Or does she lead them on because she digs the
strokes?
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If Romy just started college, that makes her either
18 or 19, right? My friend, this girl is just a baby. Unless she’s an
exception to the rule, she doesn’t even know what’s in her own mind
at that age. What have I told you guys a million times about 18 to
22-year-olds? The word, in case you forgot it, is TROUBLE.
When you
overreacted about Romy’s new group of classmates, did you let her see how
it got to you? I’m sure you did. When you plant a seed like that in her
mind, it grows, so that the man who is insecure and jealous and possessive sets
himself up for a fall with a girl who might normally be trustworthy. Bad move,
Bull.
But we don’t know yet whether your girl is trustworthy. So
-- is Romy trustworthy? Well, let’s see what we know. Like my cousin Fast
Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “We know that she wants to wear a thong,
jump up and down in the sand and play volleyball on the beach with this other
guy.” What does that tell you, Bull?
It’s okay to get angry
with Romy, just don’t get angry in front of her. What you were doing was
indirectly accusing this girl of cheating. If she wasn’t cheating, it only
showed how insecure you are. But if she was unfaithful, she has to lie to you
anyway. So you’re in a lose-lose situation here, Bull. What’s the
difference if she told you she talked to this guy or not? But you have to face
reality: if she wants to go to the beach half-naked and party with this one guy
and it’s not a group school function, you’re OUT.
Sure, all
of Romy’s e-mail correspondence was an inside joke – between her and
the beach boy. And you’re the outsider, Bull. You’re the one
who’s not in on the big laugh. Of course you wouldn’t have believed
her if she told you the truth about what happened – who would? I got news
for you -- nobody would.
So, Romy would feel the same if you starting
fooling around behind her back? What’s that supposed to mean? Like the
great Doctor Freud once said, “Have you noticed that when these babes are
playing with your head they always add cute little taglines that mean
absolutely nothing?”
But despite what went down, you’d like
to give Romy the chance to be faithful to you. How could she be faithful if she
has low Interest Level? Of course you don’t want to be played on, Bull, no
guy in his right mind would. Like my cousin Brother Love down in Watts says,
“What you have to understand, dawg, is that she’d rather be at the
beach with the younger guy than an uptight geezer.”
Remember,
guys: when a girl loses your trust, you can never get it back. |
