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Hi Tyson,
When you say you made
mistakes over and over again, you really said a mouthful. What a guy
doesn’t realize is that when he goes out with Sally, then Lynn and then
Mary, and they all dump him; they dump him for some variation of the same
reason. If he’s a Macho Boy, they dump him because he tries to dominate.
And if he’s a Wimp, they get rid of him because they get tired of giving
the guy orders. But the common denominator is waning Interest Level.
But rest assured, Tyson, as long as you’re breathing and you love
women, “The System” will help you tremendously.
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You say you were getting close to Sabrina. Were you
trying to get close to her, or – and this is the vastly more important
question -- was she trying to get close to you? Because what we have to
be talking about here is not your Interest Level – it’s
her Interest Level. Her Interest Level is the only thing that matters
– not yours.
On to the issue of space. Like my cousin Sal
“The Fish” Love says, “Man, anytime a babe uses the word
‘space,’ you’re in deep trouble.” Because when she pulls
out that dreaded word, it means her Interest Level in you is drooping into the
40s or the 50s (most likely the 40s).
It’s possible that
Sabrina’s Interest Level dropped, but more likely it was never there in
the first place. Like the great Doctor Freud once said, “Maybe you
were just projecting your Interest Level onto her like most males and
monkeys do.”
Gosh, Tyson, you couldn’t really have read my
book and believe that this girl’s “protecting your feelings,”
could you? Where in the world did you get that idea? Like my cousin Brother
Love down in Watts says, “Bro, you gotta lay off the Jack Daniels!”
Again -- women only care about their Interest Level. If they
don’t have high Interest Level, they could care less about you.
It’s the nature of the beast. Like the Reality Factor says, low
Interest Level means she doesn’t give a farthing for your feelings.
Of course you can’t put your very high Interest Level on display
at your job. In fact, you should have been letting this girl come to you all
along, and not vice-versa.
You think Sabrina’s going
through a stressful time? Dude, her ex-boyfriend’s the one who’s
freaking out – he just got dumped! Heck, Sabrina’s happy! She’s
ecstatic! She’s free to do whatever she wants. She’s already looking
for the next turkey, don’t you get it?
So don’t back off
from her. If I were you I’d just go ahead and ask her out right now. Since
she’s living with her mom now, you can just get it over with. Like my
cousin Fast Eddie Love says, “When she turns you down, you can throw the
number away and forget the whole thing once and for all.”
Now let
me explain something to you. You can only put pressure on women with low
Interest Level. To you Psych majors, you can’t put pressure on a girl
with high Interest Level, because she already digs you a lot. The only
reason Sabrina will feel awkward is because she already told you once that she
needs her space and you want to bug her. Until she knocks on your door, you
should have nothing to do with her. In the meantime, make all the other girls
at the office laugh like Jim Carrey would, and leave it at that.
Buddy, you don’t have a relationship going with this girl. She had low
Interest Level in this other guy and she wanted her space. She got her space by
breaking up with him. And she told you she wanted her space and that’s why
you think you’re going to be pressuring her. Psych 101.
Once you
found out Sabrina was living with a guy, you should have backed off until she
moved out. But you were hustling her while she was shacking up. Big mistake.
I wouldn’t ask this babe for a date in the distant future because
you already asked her once and she said no. If she’s interested in you
she’ll come on to you. The death knell was her use of that terrible word
-- “space.”
How long should you wait before you ask her out?
Like my cousin General Love would say, “Until Armageddon!”
Now why would want to give a gift to a girl you’re not dating? Unless
you’re seeing her, you don’t give her anything. In the second place,
you don’t spring for a gift until she’s in love with you.
You’re so far ahead of yourself it’s not even funny. Are you
sure you read my book?
Tyson, let’s get real. You
don’t really want to cheer Sabrina up. You want to trumpet your Interest
Level like most guys do. You could care less about showing Sabrina sympathy.
Why don’t you just give the book to someone else in the office who
doesn’t care about you, or somebody you don’t care about? Think about
it.
Remember, guys: when she’s living in sin, forget it.
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