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Hi Roman,
I hate to break this to you,
but my book is great for ALL guys. If a guy likes women, then "The System" is
for him.
Now let me tell you something: a good-looking guy might
intimidate a woman going in, but once he starts talking and comes off like a
buffoon, he's nowhere. He thinks the lady's Interest Level is up in the sky
while she's laughing inside. So good looks will get you going, but they don't
keep you there.
I don't - and never did -- advise playing any games
with women, pal. But here's the way the strategy works. You have no idea
what a woman's motives are when you meet and why she's with you. You're going
out with a complete stranger. So what I'm telling guys is that they have to go
in SLOWLY, keep their eyes open, and look for red flags. If that's playing
games, then sign me up for the Olympics!
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You completely missed my point if you think I want
women to know a guy's not interested. What turns them on is when they know you
had a good time on the date. The truth is that the woman knows on a gut
level what your Interest Level is. So what you're doing by hanging back and
not draping yourself all over a girl is being playful instead of a
game-player. Then you've got her thinking to herself, "Look at the Self-Control
this guy has! Every other guy in the world would have phoned me four hours
after our first date, said what a great time we had, and by the way, can we get
together next Saturday night?" And you know what that does, man? Like my cousin
Fast Eddie Love says, "It absolutely blows up Challenge."
And you
missed another important point, pal. Women are supposed to chase you to
win you over. Because when they have to fight to get you, it lasts longer and
they respect you more.
But you think women can't take it because they
aren't as confident as men. Hey, Roman, you should be giving speeches to
women's groups in colleges - they'd just love that statement! When it
comes to men and women, ALL WOMEN ARE CONFIDENT. They may not be so sure of
themselves flying an airplane or un-corking a champagne bottle, but when it
comes to men, they have us down cold. Like my cousin General Love says,
"You guys have no idea what you're going up against!" And what's worse, men
talk down to women when they're clueless about what women want or
need.
A clinically sane woman will look at a man's teasing, flirtatious
behavior as playfulness. If you have an insecure woman -- who I don't want you
with in the first place - that kind of confident behavior is going to make her
feel more insecure. To you Psych majors, insecure women hate Challenge.
But a self-reliant woman with a good attitude loves Challenge. So "The System"
protects guys by weeding out the women who aren't good enough, the numbers with
too many scars and baggage. Sorry about that!
Buddy, if you use
Challenge on a woman who has all her marbles, she isn't worried that
you're a player. She wonders if you're a player. There's a big
difference. And she's also wondering if she can catch you and she can get you
to want to give up all the other girls, and that notion is attractive. So
that's one thing you hit right on the head, Roman - you want her to think
that every other girl in town wants you. Because when her Interest Level is
way up in the 90s, she thinks you're the best-looking guy out of 3 billion men.
Ask any woman if you don't believe me.
Your theories about stress are
really amusing, guy. You're piling one lie on top of another. When you
shower a babe with attention and concern, all it's going to do is lower her
Interest Level. It's got nothing to do with stress. When you use Challenge,
the girl with low Self-Esteem, the girl who's been hurt a lot, is going to
react by bitching and moaning and her Interest Level is going to waver. Then
you're going to blame my techniques for screwing you up. But as I tell you in
my book, you have to give me something to work with. Like the great Doctor
Freud once said, "Don't bring me these loonies!"
Your theory on what
stress breeds makes for a great sentence, but it has nothing to do with this
article. Sure, I want her to forget this guy! I hope she gets rid of
you! That's how my principles protect you. If a woman can't take a little
teasing and have patience with my playful game plan in the beginning, then I
don't want to keep her anyway. I want someone who's got a sense of humor and
who's playful.
So, women want control? You're kidding! You got me on
that one, Roman! Gee, I never would have known!
The point is not that a
guy can have any woman he wants, but that he picked her and now they're happily
married. And she knows he would never mess around because the guy is loyal. And
he's secure in himself, and he's also a playful Challenge.
Rain started
with very high Interest Level because of your looks. (And then you started
talking!) But let me get this straight. You met this girl, you waited seven
days to call her and that just really messed with her head, right? Then you
spent four and a half hours with her and because you didn't call her right
afterwards, she was confused and scared, right? Then you're going to tell me
that you went out with her again, had a great time, waited another seven days
to call her and this created even more confusion and she's practically out of
her mind? Then I say good riddance! That's the whole point. I want it that way.
Because Challenge cleans the place up.
Next, you want me to believe that
all women have a history of being hurt. Then how is it that women do 90% of the
dumping? It's the guys who are getting beat up, my friend. Roman, do you happen
to belong to the "National Liberation of Women" movement?
Dude, good
for you that you look like George Clooney or Pierce Brosnan or Brad Pitt. With
your looks you should be choosing from tons of women, especially if you
understood my philosophy. But you're missing it completely. It's astonishing,
because I can tell by your letter that you're a very intelligent man. But when
it comes to women, you get a D.
This is the truth of the matter: "The
System" protects you. It doesn't hang you over a cliff. It keeps you in the
center of the road.
Remember, guys: some guys just don't get
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